Why do children bully each other?

By Majd Othman

KUWAIT:  Bullying in faculties has develop into a vital problem that threatens the psychological well being security of scholars and the right functioning of the instructing course of, as this problem impacts the psychology of scholars and prevents them from finding out and reaching educational excellence and from establishing shut and stable friendships amongst them. Specialists and educators have warned the hazards that come up from this problem and the rise in violence between college students, particularly within the governmental training sector.

Reviews present that when the kid bullies, he does it for a number of functions, reminiscent of – to attract the eye of others, seem as a powerful and stable individual, categorical his need to indicate energy and management over all of the individuals round him, whether or not they’re colleagues or lecturers, need for management, self-love and selfishness, in addition to the bully’s excessive jealousy of the coed’s superiority over him in research or in another exercise.

Concerning the explanations that results in existence of the college bullying problem, stories have revealed that households play an essential position within the bullying problem between college students because of the improper means of upbringing and use of strict punishment and violence with youngsters. Poisonous college life, the absence of the college’s position in instructing college students the significance of respecting one another primarily impacts the coed’s morals, along with the absence of the college’s actions that contribute to releasing the vitality of scholars, which, because of its absence, might resort to inflicting hurt to their buddies. Media and know-how additionally contribute to the unfold of bullying in faculties, particularly since many of the mass media and movies directed at youngsters, encourage the concept that being the strongest is the one technique to survive and that violence is the mandatory technique to management others. Research says that when social class variations widen between youngsters, the hazard of this kind of bullying amongst youngsters is probably going and it might additionally disrupt the college framework and have an effect on the society via the forming of felony gangs.

Then again, the stories present the significance of the household’s position to assist their bullied baby via sharing the kid considerations, investigating the issue and instructing their baby the way to take care of bullying, instructing the kid sports activities to extend his self-confidence, go to the college administration and talk about with them the issue and most significantly, boosting the kid’s self-confidence.