Maid in a relationship with S’porean guy for 1 year says he left her for another woman from well-off family through arranged marriage

SINGAPORE — A maid who was in a relationship with a neighborhood man after which unceremoniously dumped him wrote that hers was “Not your Cinderella form of story”. In an nameless publish to fashionable confessions web page SGWhispers, the maid wrote that she had been working in Singapore for a couple of decade. She was an unwed single mom with a teenage son.

“In my first 5 years right here working I’ve met a neighborhood Singaporean man and we grew to become a pair for a yr. It ended so fast as a result of I discovered that he’ll marry the one which his mother and father need him to spend with for the remainder of his life. Sure, it’s an organized marriage. Why? As a result of I’m a maid and she or he works and earns greater than my ex, i’m a single mother and she or he’s single with out baggage, i’m financially unstable and she or he got here from a effectively off household each right here in Singapore and her house nation”, she wrote. 

She added that the breakup was devastating for her as a result of each the man and his household thought that she would simply be utilizing him for cash. Nonetheless, she mentioned that she by no means requested him to spend cash on her and would all the time share or break up the invoice with him on their dates. The maid additionally wrote that she raised her son on her personal, along with her personal cash.

She added that she ended up being mates along with her ex regardless of the whole lot.

In her publish, the maid wrote: “Quick ahead two years. He contacted me once more and ranted what sort of married life he ended up for. Although his spouse earns extra they nonetheless don’t have financial savings. Causes are… She stay her life like she wasn’t married in any respect. Woman’s evening out, consuming, shopping for costly garments and baggage and doesn’t wish to have a toddler as a result of she’s afraid that if she’ll give delivery she’ll be caught at house and it’ll damage her hourglass physique determine”.

When he ranted, she wrote that she saved quiet with out responding. She added that she didn’t know how one can reply him however mentioned that she was nonetheless in love with him regardless of understanding that he was married and that she wanted to maneuver on.

“Thought this solely occur within the film. And yeah it occurred to me. I’m no knowledgeable whom you’ll marrying someday. However mindset. Examine the mindset”, she added.

Right here’s what netizens commented on her publish:

Final yr, employers who realised that their maid was sneaking out each evening took to social media to ask others for assistance on what they need to do.

In an nameless publish to fashionable Fb group FDW in Singapore (working situations discussion board), an employer wrote that they discovered their helper “has been going out each evening, about from 12 am to 2 am and can come again at about 4 am to five am. She has a boyfriend and we suspect she all the time in a single day at a lodge along with her boyfriend”.

The employers added that the helper’s boyfriend was a neighborhood, so cash was not a problem when reserving a lodge each evening. The maid’s employer wrote that the household appreciated her very a lot and trusted her “with all our coronary heart”. The employer additionally felt very upset to see her maid sneaking out.

“I’m decided to ship her house”, the employer wrote.

Upon chatting with the helper’s earlier employers, they realised that the maid was additionally sneaking out of their home as effectively, and this was why they despatched her house. Nonetheless, her earlier employers mentioned they didn’t report the maid as they didn’t need any trouble to take care of.

Maid sneaks out each evening at midnight and returns at 4am after a rendezvous along with her boyfriend at lodge

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